So why do we have a tradition of kissing under mistletoe?
Since mistletoe remains green throughout the year, many ancient peoples have ascribed these plants with magical healing powers and with fertility. Apparently, the association between mistletoe and fertility made it a traditional part of the festival of Saturnalia in ancient Greece, where the custom of kissing under mistletoe may have started. This practice was later extended to wedding ceremonies.
Victorian England seems to have adopted this tradition, too. For example, if a girl refused a kiss whilst standing under mistletoe, it was said that she wouldn't receive any marriage proposals during the following year. Worse, it seems that many people would avoid her since they believed she would probably end up an old maid. Oh dear!
Interestingly, there is a proper etiquette for kissing under the mistletoe: first, the man can only kiss a woman or girl on the cheek and second, when he does so, he removes one berry from the mistletoe spring. After all the berries are gone, the kissing ends, too. Happy Christmas mistletoe kiss to you!
